Top's Boot Camp

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Winter Haven, Central Florida
Limited number of attendance.....
Casual and comfortable during the day, light fetish at night!

Masters and slaves, Dominants and submissives couples and singles all come together for a full day of learning in Central Florida at 8:30am for entrance.

Tops Boot Camp1 was about setting the foundation, finding your path through discovering yourself, applying yourself, collars/contracts, protocols and rituals, giving and receiving service and incorporating play into your dynamic.

Full Workshop Description and Times Below!

9:00 - 10:15

Recap of TBC1 Q&A Session: Refer to TBCl Schedule page 

10:30 - 11:45

It's All About The Presentation

Have trouble finding the right words to express your self? Want to comment on something but not sure what would be an appropriate way to approach it? This portion of the day will help find ways in which you can easily express your opinions and ideas to your Master/Dom without coming across too aggressive or insinuating.  Masters/Doms, how can you be approached without feeling like you are being topped from the bottom?

Want to prepare a meal with a flare?  What about a ritual for bathing or massage? How about your body language and speech? How do you present your self? This workshop is for everyone.

12:00 - 1:00

How to Keep It Alive

How to keep your 24/7 relationship fresh, meaningful and vibrant. Sir Top and  slave bonnie bring their relationship front and center with all the trials and tribulations that occur in the beginning of such a demanding, hard yet steady journey towards the goal of Master/slave coming from a Dominant/submissive beginning. Through Sir Top's vision of what She truly believes Her relationship will be, She discusses what worked, what did not and how to walk over the classic obstacles with the original goals as the main focus. Sir Top energizes the workshop by discussing how She adds protocols, rituals and play scenes into Her structured relationship to keep the balance healthy and alive as well as to stay in head space.

1:00 - 2:00

Poolside Lunch Break

 2:00 - 3:00

What's Love Got To Do With It

Hurting the One You Love

Have you noticed in the beginning when your relationship was new and your play centered around establishing your M/s, D/s dynamic that all was good and THEN, romance may enter into the situation and your entire world can be turned upside down.  This class will cover how to identify if that is the center of your mishaps, teach you how to turn back the clock to have that "new" beginning all over again and to relearn how to hurt the ones we love.  

 3:00 - 4:00

Punishment/Discipline

Define The Difference

Come to this class prepared to discuss different methods of punishment and discipline.  Do you punish when you are mad?  Is your punishment swift and does it fit the offense?  Do we talk too much and discipline too little?  Does love interfere with making the right decisions far too often?  Examples and discussion on how to stay focused when love seems to interfere.

What do you do when you feel the punishment you are being given is unfair?  How do you deal with this and do you voice your opinion.  What happens when it is just because I said so?

4:15 - 5:30

Defining a Power Slave

Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for people who see themselves as strong in their lives but desires submission.  There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination?

Believe me when I say that you are not alone. There are many bottoms, submissives and slaves who are strong and independent and are also trying to find their place in comfort! This workshop is an intense discussion finding where you fit in within your personal identification with passion and power. From those who struggle with their desire to submit to those who strive for greater strength of purpose, this workshop will be a wonderful opportunity for you and to help understand if you are strong how you can actually embrace the dichotomy of strength in submission and freedom in slavery!

Mastering A Power Slave

While power slaves can be their owners most valuable asset, they also tend to be their owners biggest source of aggravation.  They often do not fit the stereo type of what a slave should be but they do fit the reality of how many service motivated people behave. There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination?

This workshop defines the many aspects of what a power slave feels, how they think and why they behave as they do as well as how to manage and motivate a power slave.  We will also provide suggestions to power slaves on how to channel the desire to serve in ways that minimize the irritation of their owners and maximize the value of their service.

DINNER BREAK and then...

Join us in the dungeon for a night of fun!

8:00 - 8:30

Cutting Demo

Open Dungeon Play!