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CLOSED AND AT CAPACITY

Sept 29, 2012

Winter Haven, Central Florida
Limited number of attendance
Casual and comfortable attire

Masters and slaves, Dominants and submissives couples and singles all come together for a full day of learning in Central Florida at 8:30am for entrance.

Tops Boot Camp is about setting the foundation, finding your path through discovering yourself, defining and applying yourself, understanding collars/contracts, protocols and rituals, giving and receiving service and incorporating what fits for you, into your dynamic.

Workshop Schedule:

9:00 - 10:15

The Foundation and Whats in a Title (Masters/Doms)

Often times we wonder how people find their position in the community or their personal relationship. This class explores who we are and how we get there. What is the difference between Topping, Dominating and being a Master? How do we determine which of these positions we want to be in and how do we get there. Where do we find the answers and who do we let lead us?

Sir Top will go over his personal journey and share stories of many others in this innovative workshop on D/s to M/s and everything in between. We will focus not only on situations concerning those already involved in relationships but also how to find the right Dominant/Master for you, where to look and how do we know if someone is credible? 

The foundation covers material on how to set up the foundation for the relationship of your choice. How do you structure an Ms/Ds dynamic from the ground up? Where do you find the information and how do you know if it is good information. Learn how to personalize your relationship to make it work for you and your dynamic. If you are single, how do you get yourself prepared for your journey?

Defining and Applying Your Self (slave/sub)

How do you define yourself, what really is the difference and what do these labels mean to you? Are you confused by these labels? What are the problems and inner peace of being a sub/slave?

Does your title define you accurately and what if you are a power slave or an alpha slave and how can your Master/Dom take advantage of your dynamic side? Can you really live 24/7 in your desired position and what is the difference between fantasy and reality? All of these questions will have full discuss with interaction. What do you want, how do you find it and keep it? Presentation makes all the difference so do you look, feel and act as if you are presenting and preparing yourself to the owner of your desires. Learn how you can apply yourself using your skills and having proper communication in doing so.

How can you prepare yourself with effective organization and service skills for that person you have always wanted to be as a sub/slave, as well as being prepared for your Master/Dom. Feel like you are not communicating your needs, wants and desire in an effective manner? Communication is the essential tool in a healthy D/s, M/s relationship. The trust required in establishing the foundation for these relationships are based on good communication skills. Making your communication skills both positive and effective will be discussed.

10:30 - 11:45

Setting Up Protocols and Rituals (Masters/Doms)

Sir Top will discuss protocols and rituals in this workshop, how to find the correct ones for you, where to find them and how to implement them into your daily routine. Please bring questions and examples of some of your daily rituals, household and personal protocols, to discuss. Interactive session.

Rituals and Protocols (slave/sub)

Rituals and protocols can inspire and satisfy us emotionally. We all have rituals we use on a daily basis whether we recognize them or not. The purpose of this portion is to share the rituals we already use and suggest more that can be incorporated into a relationship or personal life, correctly to our Master/Dom. Different kinds of rituals and their purposes will be covered, as well as public rituals and private ones.

How we as sub/slaves suggest protocol into our relationship will be covered as will the types of protocol levels that can reinforce the exchange of power. Open discussion will be encouraged as we speak on the types of rituals used and how they make us feel.

12:00 - 1:00

Giving and Receiving Service & The Presentation: (ALL)

Even though we may take on the roles of Master/slave, sometimes when life is hectic it is hard to stay in those roles and to allow our slaves to actually serve us. Time or old habits may make us want to do too much for ourselves and we actually short change our slaves by not allowing them to give the service their heart desires. In this class we will go over methods to help us slow down and set aside time to cherish the service in which our slaves so desire to give us. We will also talk about Masters that may be to self sufficient or chivalrous that they are not fully aware of how they are actually hindering the relationship by not allowing their slaves to serve them adequately. We will also discuss anticipatory service with suggested methods in which the slave can make it easier for the Master to accept service and show demonstrations on simple exercises to allow us to form habits in which will make our relationships healthier and help them to flourish instead of diminish.

Have trouble finding the right words to express your self? Want to comment on something but not sure what would be an appropriate way to approach it? This portion of the day will help find ways in which you can easily express your opinions and ideas to your Master/Dom without coming across too aggressive or insinuating.  Masters/Doms, how can you be approached without feeling like you are being topped from the bottom?

Want to prepare a meal with a flare?  What about a ritual for bathing or massage? How about your body language and speech? How do you present your self? This workshop is for everyone.

1:00 - 2:00

LUNCH BREAK (INCLUDED)

2:00 - 3:15

Mastering a Power Slave (Master/Dom)

While power slaves can be their owners most valuable asset, they also tend to be their owners biggest source of aggravation.  They often do not fit the stereo type of what a slave should be but they do fit the reality of how many service motivated people behave. There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination?

This workshop defines the many aspects of what a power slave feels, how they think and why they behave as they do as well as how to manage and motivate a power slave.  We will also provide suggestions to power slaves on how to channel the desire to serve in ways that minimize the irritation of their owners and maximize the value of their service.

Defining a Power Slave (slave/sub)

Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for people who see themselves as strong in their lives but desires submission.  There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination?

Believe me when I say that you are not alone. There are many bottoms, submissives and slaves who are strong and independent and are also trying to find their place in comfort! This workshop is an intense discussion finding where you fit in within your personal identification with passion and power. From those who struggle with their desire to submit to those who strive for greater strength of purpose, this workshop will be a wonderful opportunity for you and to help understand if you are strong how you can actually embrace the dichotomy of strength in submission and freedom in slavery!

3:30 - 4:30

Contracts, Collars, Covers and Community (ALL)

We will also discuss different levels of collaring and the earning of leather such as the covering ceremony from old guard traditions and what that means within the community and individually.

We will have examples of different contracts and other documents for you to view.

4:45 - 5:30

Discussion Q&A Wrap Up

6:00 - 8:00

DINNER BREAK (NOT INCLUDED)

8:00 - 11:00p